I'm Debi,  I have been active in Tri-Beta since 2006. I really enjoy our group. If you're looking for a group that thoroughly understands your feelings as a wife of a crossdresser and is nonjudgmental you've come to the right place. I'm a General Board Member for our group and I help in the policy and direction of the group. I was fortunate that my husband told me before I married him. It's not always easy, but talking about it and being in the group has really helped me, and I'm sure it would help you as well. I'm looking forward to chatting with you when you’re ready.  So email me at sunlover0525@yahoo.com  and I'll be happy to help in any way I can.! You'll be glad you did.