DO WIVES ACCEPT THIS BEHAVIOR?
Some do.
Some don't. The issue of spousal accommodation to cross dressing is as varied as
are the couples in whose lives cross dressing becomes an issue. There are no
formulae. Each person involved has to search self and consider much more than
the prejudices and emotional flaring which commonly accompany disclosure of
cross dressing. Fundamentally, the acquisition of knowledge and the enrichment
of attitude are essential. Remember spouses grow up subject to the same
sociological conditioning interim's of socially approved stereotypes as do the
cross dressers for whom this is a major problem. Cross dressing introduced into
a marriage invariably requires rapid growth in terms of knowledge, self esteem,
and security of the relationship, or the relationship is in dire threat of
falling apart. It is a case of "grow or go" most of the time.
Therefore, it is wise for the cross dresser who discovers and comes to terms
with cross dressing before marriage to be honest and risk loss of the intended
rather than go through the trauma of disillusionment which so often happens
later on. "Tell your intended first, then work out the relationship before
you get into a legally binding situation" is our advice. A good policy to
follow is for a cross dresser to share cross dressing with a lady no later than
the third or fourth date. Being rejected early never has hurt so badly as being
rejected later on when a relationship has begun to mature. Further this gives
the lady due respect and freedom to stay or go away as she chooses and there is
no "inducement under false pretense". It is just the honest and
honorable thing to do.